I'm sitting with Mummy and Monica right now, and Mummy is crying. She continues to miss Daddy (obviously). But what my sister and I are attempting to do is have her focus on the good memories they shared.
And one of the best memories came from the start of their life journey together. They looked so happy. Focus on this Mummy for your and Daddy's sake. He wouldn't want you to be so sad, so focus on those good moments please.